Life aspect

The major aspect of life is the one, that you should not blindly believe in anyone, and to rely on yourself  without  having to incline on one else ,once you rely on this you ought to continue the way and you will not even realize, what you are losing by resorting the same. It is not be entirely discarded on sharing views or resting your head on shoulders of others, who are close to you but what  is supposed to meant is that, when you see yourself down and seek others to relieve yourself it becomes habit and you realize later part of life or a bit earlier, when something bitter occurs between  the shared and the other proves to be immature and not worthy to be considered  as close as you thought, the moment you encounter the situation of lack of immaturity and not so receptivity of others , you will soon be ending yourselves be fooled and its rebounds you with the effect, that you ,yourself being not so mature and not able to bear consequence, when nature of others disclosed by their action, albeit implicitly. What I am supposing to express is that no matter how dynamic you are and how frankly you try yourself to be others, you should never be let yourself loose and should try to maintain diplomacy, in other words, despite you being considered to be knowledgeable, mature  and whatever by others, the so called close ones may not be able to understand your knowledge and the ones will always due to ignorance or least understanding in nature may take you to be eccentric or idiotic not realizing that you are who are trying to  be close to him/her  and so expressing yourself or  explaining something in detail, so that so called closed ones should know of something which you know is something like you are harping on blah…..blah………blah……………which others consider never to bother.
In the above paragraph there is something underlying contradiction to say, but when taken in parts it has its impact too.